Anal sex might have been taboo in the past, not to be talked about or engaged in. But those days are far behind us. In fact, a third of all heterosexual adult men and women claim to have at least tried it.
Are you hoping to give anal a go? Or have you tried it and are hoping to take your experience to the next level?
There are many ways to increase the pleasure and overall experience of anal sex. Continue reading to learn five erotic tips that can help make every anal experience fantastic.
1. Experiment With Lubrication
Lubrication is a must for anal sex, especially if it’s your first time. However, there are many types of lubrication you could use, and experimenting with them can be a lot of fun. The use of lube also significantly decreases the risk (or amount) of pain.
There are basic silicone and water-based lubricants. Some lubricants may offer a tingling sensation or be cannabis-based for a different feeling. If interested, view here.
2. Create a Safe Word
There’s no way to get around – consent is sexy. Creating a safe word in advance allows both partners to feel more confident, safe, and secure in anal play. This can lead to better, more adventurous anal sex.
3. Use a Dildo First (or Take Turns)
If it’s your first time trying anal, you may want to try it with a dildo first. Dildos come in a range of sizes, and inexperienced participants can begin with a dildo smaller than their partner’s penis before working up. Dildos also offer more control.
Already an experienced anal user? Consider taking turns penetrating and receiving with your partner, using a combination of a dildo and natural penis. Open up a conversation about it with your partner, and you may be surprised what they’re willing to try.
4. Stimulate Around the Anus First
Foreplay is important in any form of sex. Make anal sex more enjoyable and erotic by stimulating around the anus before moving on to penetration. You can use toys, fingers, or even your tongue to stimulate the backdoor first.
5. Add Clitoral Stimulation
Anal sex leaves the hands of your partner open to explore the front of your body or vice versa. Adding clitoral stimulation can bring the anal sex experience to a whole new level of ecstasy. You can use either fingers or toys to stimulate the clit during anal and feel free to switch between the two.
More Questions About Anal Sex?
Anal sex doesn’t have to be frightening the first time, and it certainly isn’t the taboo topic it once was. More people are experimenting with anal than ever before. The five erotic tips above can help make all your anal encounters fantastic.
Do you have more questions about anal sex?
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