Who said that girls get to have all the fun? In the world of the sex toy, that often seems to be the mantra as rows of pink wands and beaded vibrators gaze down on the solitary shelf devoted to men.
However, what men lack in choice, they more than make up for in sheer sex toy ingenuity.
That is courtesy of the fleshlight, the sex toy for men that is to go to product. Below, we give you some handy tips on how to use a fleshlight for beginners.
What Is a Fleshlight?
A fleshlight is one of many sex toys for men that are available. It looks like a normal flashlight in one respect but has an artificial vagina at one end. This is made from a substance called Superskin, which feels like real human skin, and can be used for penetration.
How to Use a Fleshlight
Fleshlights can be used immediately. However, there are a few things you can do to increase the pleasure and make it feel even more realistic.
Fill a faucet with hot tap water. Remove the internal sleeve from your fleshlight and bathe the tube so that it warms. This will give the feeling of being inside a real, warm vagina.
You can have it at any temperature you like. However, we would recommend body temperature for the best experience. Once it is satisfactory, shake off any excess water and place the tube back into the fleshlight body.
Before you start, use some lube on the fleshlight. Apply it liberally on the entry and the internal canal. This will increase the sensation from all angles, and doing it like this will undoubtedly make it one of the best sex toys.
Ideally, use a water-based lubricant as this will not damage the sex toy. Once you have climaxed, you can then wash the inner tube in warm water. Avoid using any harsh soaps or detergents, as this can also damage the toy.
Hints and Tips
One of the greatest tips when using a fleshlight is to restrict the airflow in the toy. Each fleshlight has a small air cap, and if this is left on, it will create a suction effect. You can enhance this by using your hand to restrict flow at the bottom of the toy for even more suction and pull.
Types of Fleshlight
The wide variety of fleshlights on the market makes it one of the best sex toys for beginners. The standard pink vagina model is always a good starting point, and you should check out this toy before anything else. From that, you can decide if you want to upgrade or add extras.
For anyone wanting maximum discretion, you can get folding fleshlights in a can. These are easy to carry and store away, making it unlikely anyone will find or know you have a sex toy.
For increased pleasure, some sleeves even have added textures. Though they will not feel as realistic, many of them do increase pleasure. If this is still not enough, you can even get hold of ones that vibrate.
So if you have the fleshlight, and you know how to use a fleshlight, what are you still doing here? If you enjoy our company that much and really liked our article, then check out some of our other blog posts for curious men and women.