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Switching Things Up: 5 Kinky Ideas for the Bedroom

Sensual beautiful young couple is having sex on bed

Whether you’re a young couple utilizing all your energy or you’ve been together for decades, there is never a limit to how much fun you have had in the bedroom.

This can be as simple as introducing a new toy or exploring kinks that you never felt comfortable sharing. A bedroom is a place for communication, as well as fun times.

Below are five kinky ideas for the bedroom. Keep reading to get some inspiration! 

1. Bondage

Bondage is one of the first places couples go for kinky sex ideas. This can mean rope, collars, or handcuffs. The decisions come down to what you’re comfortable with.

Check out some tips for beginners that are wanting to try bondage for the first time.

2. Switching Roles

Feel free to give up power or take power for once. Switching up the power dynamic can be a great way to experience new pleasures and know what the other partner feels during sex.

3. Introduce New Toys

There is a wide variety of toys that stretched beyond just your standard vibrator. You have everything from nipple clamps to masturbation toys for both sexes to anal training.

Look through a website that sells toys and find out what you and your partner are willing to try. Some kinky bedroom ideas might come to mind while you’re browsing the store.

4. Watching But No Touching

You can partake in the act of mutual masturbation or even single masturbation while the other watches. You can set rules about if or how they can watch you or touch you and build up the anticipation that comes from wanting the other partner.

For an extra bit of spice, consider going to separate parts of the house and setting up a webcam on either a computer or phone. You can then watch from a distance and partake in a form of voyeurism.

5. Communicate Kinks and Watch a “Movie”

Discuss kinks with each other to find out if there is anything either of you gets really turned on by. This creates a line of trust and communication that is an integral part of sex.

Once a kink has been decided on and you want to see if it interests either of you, you can try finding a kinky movie or porn that matches the kink.

This will allow both of you to see what the kink entails and how you can incorporate it into the bedroom. Just be sure to find one that is realistic and doesn’t set unrealistic standards.

Use These Kinky Ideas for the Bedroom to Increase Your Sex Life

By using these kinky ideas for the bedroom, you’re not only spicing up your sex life but also getting better at communication.

You learn the ins and outs of your partner more and may find that your sex life increases because you two have something to look forward to now.

If you want to learn more about getting better at sex and communication, then be sure to check out the rest of our blog. Know a couple that could use some help? Send this article to them to help them out.

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